Karen Lawrence
BACP Accredited Counsellor & Supervisor
Member of ATSAC
ACTO Professional Register
Let’s Talk About Problematic Pornography Use: Series 1-3
Series 1 Joe’s first experience of pornography was being shown it by his friend on his phone when aged ten. He remembers both the shock and excitement of watching what his family would have viewed as ‘taboo’.
The Pinch-Crunch Model For Couples – How Small Problems Can Grow Into Big Ones
Within the context of relationships and communication, I have found one useful framework that I often discuss in counselling is the Pinch-Crunch Model. Developed by John J. Sherwood and John C. Glidewell in the 1970s. This model explains how interpersonal relationships evolve and how small, unresolved issues ‘Pinches’, can escalate into serious conflicts ‘Crunches’ if not addressed constructively. Using this model, I have found it possible to help some couples develop new awareness about their interaction and gain skills in dealing with difficulties as they arise. How Does A Pinch-Crunch Begin? Every relationship, even casual ones begin by a […]
Why did you choose one another?
Why did you choose one other? – Uncovering the psychodynamics of couple relationships A question that is often asked not only in couple counselling but socially amongst friends and family is ‘why did you choose one another’? Most couples say ‘we fancied each other’, ‘I found him/her/they attractive’ - the sexual chemistry and sexual preferences. […]
